Just Wondering

So why doesnt a guy get the hint when you play it off like your just really stressed and have too much going on in your life? I mean...HELLO...red flag! That means...LEAVE ME ALONE. DUH. So, obviously that is not going to cut it. Looks like Im going to have to toughen up a little bit. I just hope I dont have to get mean...Id hate to open that can of worms.